We introduced some sign language with Jude when he was somewhere between 6-9 months old and continue to use it with him on a daily basis. In most cases, he can speak the word but continues to sign at the same time. From the get-go, he adapted some of the signs to make them own, most notably the sign for "please." The standard ASL for "please" is to use an open palm touching the chest and moving in a circular motion like this:
From the first time we introduced this sign, Jude has signed this by putting both hands on his chest/belly and moving his trunk from side-to-side, often quite excitedly. Here's an example where he was begging for some additional sour cream on his plate (and he uses the standard sign for "more");
He certainly gets his point across with his modified sign and I guess that's the whole point of introducing sign anyways. But it's funny how kids make things their own!
Tuesday, June 3, 2014
Thursday, May 29, 2014
Tickle Monster!
For some reason, Jude has recently decided that he should "tickle" Ben and me when we crawl on the floor to clean up around his chair at dinner or snack time. We have no idea what prompted him to decide that this was a good time to tickle us. While we certainly have a fair amount of tickling in our household, it's not like we do any tickling at the table. Jude's been doing the occasional "tick-uh, tick-uh," since April (he first "tickled" me on a Sunday afternoon when Jonah and I were laid up sick on the couch), but recent weeks feature regular tickling sessions like this one:
He so thoroughly enjoys himself when he does this to us and his laughter and his pleasure in it is infectious. We love playing up our reaction to encourage the fun. Now if only we could keep him from pulling my hair in conjunction with the tickling...
He so thoroughly enjoys himself when he does this to us and his laughter and his pleasure in it is infectious. We love playing up our reaction to encourage the fun. Now if only we could keep him from pulling my hair in conjunction with the tickling...
Wednesday, May 28, 2014
Pour Some Water on Me!
It's been over a year since we've taken the time to blog. Yikes! I guess life just got busy and priorities changed. Finding time to blog didn't take precedence, even though we've been documenting the kids by taking lots of photos and videos and posting the sweet, silly, and insane little comments they make on Facebook. But as Jude's been getting bigger, I find myself looking back more and more to remember where Jonah was at this stage or what he enjoyed doing, etc. Not so much to compare them directly, but more for reference points. And it's nice to read back through some longer pieces to remember what we were doing and feeling at particular points in time. So my hope is to try to do a bit more blogging in the coming weeks and months, even if they aren't particularly long posts.
So... to get things started, I thought I'd share this video taken on Monday. We pulled out the water table and set it up on the front yard in the hopes that it would entertain the boys for a while and I could do some weeding in one of the flower beds nearby and Ben could till the garden out back. This was the first time that Jude really was able to play at the water table as a water table. He was too little to use it last summer (not standing at all), and we pulled it out once over the winter and filled it with birdseed in the house so he could just have some tactile play when we couldn't get outside.
Needless to say, he LOVED it and enjoyed pouring the water on himself just as much as anything else (well, he did also like to drink the water out of the cup).
Between the water table and the sandbox, we had four (if not more) outfit changes over the course of the day. I think we need to get this little guy to the pool!
So... to get things started, I thought I'd share this video taken on Monday. We pulled out the water table and set it up on the front yard in the hopes that it would entertain the boys for a while and I could do some weeding in one of the flower beds nearby and Ben could till the garden out back. This was the first time that Jude really was able to play at the water table as a water table. He was too little to use it last summer (not standing at all), and we pulled it out once over the winter and filled it with birdseed in the house so he could just have some tactile play when we couldn't get outside.
Needless to say, he LOVED it and enjoyed pouring the water on himself just as much as anything else (well, he did also like to drink the water out of the cup).
Between the water table and the sandbox, we had four (if not more) outfit changes over the course of the day. I think we need to get this little guy to the pool!
Thursday, May 2, 2013
Silly Things Parents Do
I think all parents do silly things to humor their children from time to time. It's one of the privileges of parenthood.
We recently purchased a used play set from someone via craigslist. Ben and a friend (and one of our new neighbors, pulled in at the last minute) were able to get it moved to our back yard on Saturday, but we have not yet been able to get it put together (tearing it apart and moving it took longer than expected). Of course having all of these pieces in the back yard - especially a slide - and not being able to play on them is rather frustrating for an almost 3-year old. So Ben humored him on Saturday night, lifting the slide up so he could go down it.
We've had some gorgeous weather the past few days so this scenario has played out multiple times, and I've even lifted up the slide myself. Hopefully we can get some help on Saturday to get the set put back together. It's amazingly difficult to round up 5 adults on the weekend in the spring!
(One final note: don't you love the too-small hat Jonah wears in the video? He insisted upon wearing it, even though a winter hat was unnecessary.)
We recently purchased a used play set from someone via craigslist. Ben and a friend (and one of our new neighbors, pulled in at the last minute) were able to get it moved to our back yard on Saturday, but we have not yet been able to get it put together (tearing it apart and moving it took longer than expected). Of course having all of these pieces in the back yard - especially a slide - and not being able to play on them is rather frustrating for an almost 3-year old. So Ben humored him on Saturday night, lifting the slide up so he could go down it.
We've had some gorgeous weather the past few days so this scenario has played out multiple times, and I've even lifted up the slide myself. Hopefully we can get some help on Saturday to get the set put back together. It's amazingly difficult to round up 5 adults on the weekend in the spring!
(One final note: don't you love the too-small hat Jonah wears in the video? He insisted upon wearing it, even though a winter hat was unnecessary.)
Jude tried solids
| Ready to try this eating thing! |
Whereas Jonah had not necessarily shown a lot of interest in eating solid food before we introduced it, Jude has been showing some signs that he has been ready. He watches us eat and occasionally grabs at our silverware and plates when he sits on our laps at a meal. He often stares at Jonah during meal times as well. We've had Jude sitting in the table in the high chair at meals with us for about a month, and while he tends to slouch to one side, he can support himself just fine.
| What is going on here? |
| I'm supposed to eat this, right? |
| Trying to figure this out... |
| Not so sure about this any more... |
Ben caught it on video (while also taking photos):
Here's a link for a look back at Jonah's first experience with solids.
Sunday, April 28, 2013
Look who's 6 months old!
| What a heart breaker at 6 months! |
It’s hard to believe it, but our little guy turned 6 months
old last week! Much has happened since we last blogged, but finding the time to
blog is just increasingly difficult these days. Let’s just say that we have our
hands full with the two boys, our full-time jobs, and trying to keep the
household running...
Since we last really posted about Jude (about 2 months ago),
he has hit a number of milestones:
1. He’s rolled over, going from his tummy to back just days
after the 4-month mark, and finally rolling the other way for the first time last
week (at least the first time I’d ever witnessed). While Jude can roll, he doesn’t really do it
all that often. If he’s on his tummy, he’s generally perfectly content
to look around and to suck his thumb or to inchworm or spin until he gets
frustrated or close enough to the item that he desires. If he’s on his back,
he’ll often twist and contort his body to see things (moving all of his body over but his head),
but usually gives up or spins enough in the process that eventually he finds
something of interest. Now that he is more interested in the world
and in getting objects of his desire, it will be interesting to see if he steps
up his rolling. It seems that the two other boys in his room at day care who were also born the same week are also in this boat (yes, three of them are within 5 days of each other!).
3. Jude is an avid thumb-sucker. Doesn’t matter which one. But
one of his thumbs is pretty much a permanent fixture in his mouth. Sometimes he
double-thumbs it. It’s a good thing the thumbs are inseparable! I have mixed feeling
about this – it’s nice that he doesn’t need to have the pacifier to comfort
him, but at the same time, I worry that it will be difficult to wean him from
the thumbs…
4. Jude also enjoys eating his feet, so much so that giving a bath can be a bit of a challenge as he’s practically doubled over in the bath and little of his body is exposed. Socks are often victims of this compulsion too.
We've hit a number of other milestones as well, such as playing with certain toys, getting some great vocalizations, and starting solid foods (yesterday). Those will come in separate posts - hopefully sooner rather than later. How amazing it's been to watch this little guy grow and change!
Saturday, March 9, 2013
Melting the Coldest Winter Snow
With all the talk of "Snowpocalypse" and various other names for the big winter storms floating around, we've been pretty fortunate to not have gotten huge amounts of snow at any one time. It has been cold, though. Fortunately, we've got a couple sweet boys who know how to make us melt.
Jude obviously doesn't have any words, yet, but his smiles and expressions just turn us to mush sometimes.
Jonah has a full arsenal of words at his disposal to go along with his expressions, and I wanted to be sure to share some before they are lost to time. This isn't just the standard "I love you" and random "I'm happy" that still have full impact, but other little things that he says.
Michelle bought some daffodils today. Jonah constantly reminds us that yellow and orange are his favorite colors with great enthusiasm. He was thrilled when he saw the flowers, and I introduced him to smelling them along with enjoying how they look. After lunch, he said "I want to smell the yellow flowers again!" As I type it, it doesn't seem to have as much impact, but it was really sweet the way he said it.
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| Reading by turtle-light |
A few nights back, after reading with Jonah, he was playing with his Twilight Turtle, which projects stars on his ceiling and walls when lit up. Usually he likes to shine it so that we can "eat" the stars or so we can have the starts on our faces or hands. That night, knowing it was cloudy out, he asked me to open his curtains so he could share his stars with the sky.
Michelle told me a story at daycare where they had puzzles out, and after completing one, he walked over to a friend and asked if he could "please do the puzzle with" him. They then continued to work on the puzzle together. I'm sure I don't do the story justice, but it sounds like such a sweet moment.
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We recently got some books through the Scholastic order at daycare. One of these books quickly became a favorite: Penguin and Pinecone. Completely out of the blue while we were eating lunch one day, Jonah looked at Michelle and said "Mommy, you will always be in my heart." Then he turned to me and said "Daddy, you will always been in my heart, too." The unlikely friendship between a penguin and a pinecone introduced him to the expression, and it blew us away that he would use it.
There's nothing quite like sweet words from your two year old to melt your heart.
Monday, February 25, 2013
Jude is 4-Months Old!
| 4-months old! Look at me sitting up for a while! |
We took Jude to the doctor today for his 4-month check-up and were a bit shocked to learn that he weighs just 10 lbs. 5 oz. (slightly less than Jonah weighed at 2 months), and measures 23 3/4 inches (exactly the same as Jonah did at 4 months and in the 10th percentile). (See what Jonah looked like in the post we wrote when he was 4 months old!). Developmentally, Jude is where he is supposed to be, but we'll be watching his intake and growth a bit more closely in the coming weeks.
| Jude at 3 months. |
Of course, it's interesting to see the interaction and interplay between the two boys as well. Every "toy" that comes back out for Jude has to go through rigorous Jonah testing first, as was the case with the Bumbo:
| This sure is a different experience! |
| Hey - wasn't that my chair? |
| I can still fit in this! This is MY chair! |
In terms of the personal dynamics between the two boys, it has generally been sweet. This evening, Jonah was concerned that Jude was trying to eat his burp cloth and tried to pull it off of my shoulder so that Jude wouldn't "eat" it. I explained that Jude wasn't trying to eat it, but that sometimes the burp cloth got in the way of his hand getting to his mouth. It was nice to see Jonah exhibit some concern for Jude. And then Jonah tried to get Jude to laugh by making up his own "baby talk" and blowing raspberries at him. Unfortunately, it didn't work in this instance, but it was so much fun to watch Jonah take an interest in and watch out for Jude. There are still times where he has fits and asks us to not bring along Jude, or tells me to not nurse Jude because he would rather I do something else, but overall, Jonah is a good big brother.
We are lucky to have two such sweeties!
Thursday, February 14, 2013
We Couldn't Resist
The essence is that we used painter's tape as a resist on paper and canvases. Jonah doesn't yet have the dexterity to do this on his own, but we quickly ripped and placed the tape for him and he went at it with his paintbrush (and hands). The first weekend, we made snowflake scenes on art paper; the second weekend, we made Valentine-themed messages on canvas. I'm not sure whether it was the additional experience, the novelty of the canvas, or the slightly smaller size of the canvases, but he was much more enthusiastic about it the second weekend. We actually had to tape off a few more canvases while he was working to satisfy his creative binge (note to self: time to stock up on more multi-packs of canvases at Michael's).
| Sticking out my tongue always helps! |
Jonah's idea of color mixing right now is quite interesting: he pretty much just pushes all of the paint around until it becomes mostly the same color. When we encouraged him to use a particular color and mix it on the canvas, he would go around and get a dot of each of the colors from his palettes (paper plates), such that he was never really adding just one color to his canvas. The results are great, but the process is not at all like how we as adults might have gone about it. I know it's important to remember that!
| Intent on his painting, with that tongue still out. |
| What will this look like when I get the tape ripped off? |
The snowflake works are now hanging in the playroom where we can see them every day. For Valentine's Day, Jonah selected an artwork to send to each of his grandparents; Ben and I got to keep three of them and I know we will treasure them!
| The finished works of art! |
| Early stages of covering the paper, with tape still visible. |
| Painting his hands instead of the paper. Caught in action. |
| The finished snowflake scenes. |
Tuesday, February 12, 2013
Rub-a-Dub-Dub, Two Boys and the Tub!
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| I don't think I like this! |
Jude was not happy about his first bath at home. We did it in the spare bathroom in a small tub that came home from the hospital with Jonah, and I made it as quick as possible. Jude screamed and cried the entire time. Jonah had to be present to witness it, but he spent the entire time washing his combs in the sink nearby, which was both a help and a hindrance. I secured privileges of the first bath at home because Ben had those privileges with Jonah. Fair is fair, right?
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| Who cares that my brother is screaming about a bath right next to me! |
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| Jude's first bath in the "big" tub. |
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| Jonah playing with his duck boat while Daddy bathes Jude. Typical scene. |
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| This does not qualify as a fire truck in Jonah's view. |
Sometimes we sing and use the toys as a part of the fun. For a while, Jonah was very much into the "Five Green and Speckled Frogs" song, and we used it to work on counting/numbers and just having fun in general. I caught it on video one night in December (though it wasn't Jonah's best performance on the counting side):
Now, we can't play with the little frog without Jonah stealing it and having to squirt us. He still can't quite figure out how to fill it (and it does tend to "stick" in the collapsed position, so no additional water will enter it without coaxing). It's hilarious when he has to stop squirting you to ask you to fill the frog and then immediately expects you to give it back so that he can get you wet.
So many fun times and memories have been made at bath time! We very much look forward to seeing the two boys interact together and have fun in the tub, but expect that is still some time away. In the meantime, separate back-to-back baths it is!
Monday, February 11, 2013
The Color of Food
Just a quick post tonight before bed before I forget some of the things Jonah said and did today.
He's been very sweet lately, saying things like "Thank you, Mommy, for making oatmeal for breakfast," and "I love you, too" when we tell him we love him. Tonight, he told Mommy that "in the morning I am going to eat the yummy oatmeal she made for breakfast." (It is a cranberry-apple baked oatmeal, and he's right... it is very yummy).
For dinner we made up some beef with broccoli with rice. Of course Jonah had no issues with the rice, but he adamantly refused to even touch the beef and broccoli. When we had this same dish in the past, he liked it. This time around, though, he wouldn't even put a piece of beef in his mouth. He got very upset, but I was able to calm him down to try to get some more information. I asked him what he didn't like about it. Silence. Was it the color? Did he not like the brown? Yes, that was it.
So I offered to color the meat red. Would he eat it then? He said he would, so I grabbed a little ketchup and "painted" a piece of beef. He ate it, saying he thought it was really good. With this in mind, I thought we'd see about getting him to eat some more, so I offered to "paint" the rest of his beef with our "special red food paint" (I wanted to be careful about this and hope it doesn't come back to bite me the next time we do an art project with paint!). I even colored some of the broccoli red, and he ate that with "yummy" comments. In the end Jonah ended up eating a pretty good meal, even if it was a little colored with ketchup. Funny that brown isn't an issue when it is shaped like a cookie or cake!
At least Jonah ate, and even though he did, I'm sure he will still be hungry for Mommy's oatmeal in the morning.
He's been very sweet lately, saying things like "Thank you, Mommy, for making oatmeal for breakfast," and "I love you, too" when we tell him we love him. Tonight, he told Mommy that "in the morning I am going to eat the yummy oatmeal she made for breakfast." (It is a cranberry-apple baked oatmeal, and he's right... it is very yummy).
For dinner we made up some beef with broccoli with rice. Of course Jonah had no issues with the rice, but he adamantly refused to even touch the beef and broccoli. When we had this same dish in the past, he liked it. This time around, though, he wouldn't even put a piece of beef in his mouth. He got very upset, but I was able to calm him down to try to get some more information. I asked him what he didn't like about it. Silence. Was it the color? Did he not like the brown? Yes, that was it.
So I offered to color the meat red. Would he eat it then? He said he would, so I grabbed a little ketchup and "painted" a piece of beef. He ate it, saying he thought it was really good. With this in mind, I thought we'd see about getting him to eat some more, so I offered to "paint" the rest of his beef with our "special red food paint" (I wanted to be careful about this and hope it doesn't come back to bite me the next time we do an art project with paint!). I even colored some of the broccoli red, and he ate that with "yummy" comments. In the end Jonah ended up eating a pretty good meal, even if it was a little colored with ketchup. Funny that brown isn't an issue when it is shaped like a cookie or cake!
At least Jonah ate, and even though he did, I'm sure he will still be hungry for Mommy's oatmeal in the morning.
Wednesday, January 30, 2013
Santa, Baby!
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| Visiting Santa at Brookfield Square Mall. |
As in the past, we took the boys to see Santa at the mall. We went on a Friday early in December, taking advantage of the fact that I was home on leave to avoid the longer lines of evenings and weekends. Jonah had been very excited about Santa; this is the first year that he really seemed to engage in and understand the concept of Christmas and this mysterious man named Santa. Ben and I were able to use the concept of staying on Santa's nice list to our advantage, prompting good behavior and a listening boy on a number of occasions. Before visiting Santa, we had asked Jonah what he was going to tell him that he wanted for Christmas. This changed a few times over the course of a couple of weeks, but then fortunately settled into a pretty consistent response of "an orange convertible and lots and lots of garbage trucks."
Our experience at the mall was a positive one. Jonah sat on Santa's lap without issue and Jude, innocent babe that he is, didn't mind one bit. Santa definitely got a chuckle when Jonah made his request. How many little boys ask for lots of garbage trucks? I suppose there must be a good number of them as you can find several different models in stores and online.
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| Baby Jude is bored by Santa. |
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| I just don't know about this guy... |
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| Trying out the elf's hat... |
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| My doughnut! Awesome! |
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| Jonah with Santa at day care, 2011. |
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| Jonah with Santa at day care, 2012. |
Friday, January 25, 2013
Christmas Trees!
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| Rolling the cone in the toppings. |
In an attempt to rein in the messiness, I plated the various toppings and let Jonah roll the ice cream cones in them, as the white chocolate itself was relatively hot and I wasn't sure he was able to handle spooning it on the cones. He enjoyed rolling the cones for a while, but the sugary foods soon won out (and stuck to his hand as he touched the white chocolate). It quickly became an opportunity to eat as much sugary stuff as possible, which is fine for a "special treat."
At first, Jonah tried to be sneaky about eating the toppings. Which is pretty hilarious. There is nothing "sneaky" about a 2.5 year old. (He currently likes to "hide" right in plain sight of us.) But I pretended to ignore it for a while. Eventually, he didn't try to hide it and his face and hands became increasingly covered with the sweets. The nonpareils were especially bad for sticking to his hand and he resorted to shoving his entire hand in his mouth to eat them. What a mess he was by the end, and what a great time we had!
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| I'm not eating this coconut, Mommy! |
I put our trees on a small table near the front entry, amidst some stuffing arranged to look like snow. Unfortunately I didn't take pictures of this (or I can't find them right now), but it was nice to walk by the trees every day and be reminded of our fun time together. I think this is a project I'll keep on the list to do again in the years to come!
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| Oh, you caught me, didn't you? |
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| Open mouth, insert hands. |
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| Look at that messy face! |
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| Our finished "forest." |
Thursday, January 24, 2013
Not a Box
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| Painting the bottom of the car. |
To help reinforce the notion that the box could be a car, I suggested that the following day we paint the box and that Jonah should think about the color he wanted to paint it. In the end, he settled for pretty much all of the colors of paint, which was just fine. I moved our rolling cart from the center of the kitchen and rounded up one of our drop cloths to protect the floor. Jonah had a good time using the paint brush and liked walking around the box to work on painting different portions of it. I had a difficult time keeping him from painting the bottom of the box, which I'd placed up on the floor (only really a concern because we were going to drag the complete box around the house as a car again), and Jonah had a hard time concentrating on any one section long enough to cover it completely with paint. Unfortunately, I realized too late that we never got a photo of the "completed" car.
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| Getting paint off the plate, er, palette. |
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| I think I'll move on to this side of the car. |
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| Waiting for Mommy to dole out some more paint. |
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